If you are in India and active on Facebook, you must be aware that "secular", this word has been used and still being used as an abuse by RSS/ BJP people.  Why? Because Congress has used secularism for appeasement of Muslims. That is why, this saffron brigade abuse the concept of secularism, pseudo secularism. And I think, they are right also, congress just abused this concept.  But do this saffron brigade abuse secularism for this reason alone? No, not at all. They abuse because they hate the very concept of secularism, which says that state should not be guided by any religion. This saffron brigade wanna make this country Hindu, whatever they understand by Hinduism, they want everyone to accept their concept and live accordingly. Hence the collision, hence the abuse, hence the misuse. Me too do not like this concept, but my reasons are different. For me present day Secularism is a shallow concept. What state secularism is? Say yeah to all the religions. Not for s...

You must have seen Hindi movies “Avtar” featuring Rajesh Khanna and “Baagbaan” featuring Amitabh Bachchan, in such movies only one sided picture of the society has been shown. It is depicted that kids do not care for their parents. Parents are victimized by their kids, especially the ones who sacrifice every bit for the present & future of their kids. Right, this is right. But this is only partly right. There is another aspect and that too quite contrary. Let us see with me. 1) Exactly from the point of time of the conception of the child, atrocity of the parents begins, who told them to bring a child in the world. Did the child sent a telegram to them or a sms or an E-mail, any invitation? No, it is the wish and choice of the parents alone. But later on an impression is given to the kids as if the parents has done some favour to the kids by bringing them on this earth and bringing up the on the earth. Now, these parents be asked, it is you alone who are responsible for their ...

चलो, मैं भी कुछ योगदान करता हूँ, इस गर्म मुद्दे पर... कोई कहता है इनको मत पूजो, कोइ कहता है पूजो, भक्त गण विरोध प्रदर्शन कर रहे हैं...बहुत धार्मिक मुद्दा लगता है उपरी तौर पर. थोड़ा सा गहन देखें, सारे मुद्दे का धर्म से कोइ लेना देना नहीं है न तो समर्थन में खड़े लोगों का और न ही विरोध करने वालों का कोइ धर्म से मतलब है शुद्ध राजनीती और व्यापार है जो विरोध कर रहे हैं, उनको क्या पता धर्म क्या है? वो तो बस चाहते हैं कि ये जो एक अंधी भीड़ जो अपने ऊपर हिन्दू का लेबल लगाए है ये कहीं भटक कर एक नए मुस्लिम जैसे दिखने वाले फ़क़ीर की तरफ ज्यादा झुक कर अपने पुराने देवी देवता, राम, कृष्ण, विष्णु, शंकर , दुर्गा, गणेश आदि को इग्नोर न कर दे...यह जो कहीं इन लोग का जमा जमाया धंधा कमज़ोर न पड़ जाए.....फिर सदियों से जमाये धंधे में क्यों किसी और को हिस्सेदार बनाया जाये? और जो भक्त गण हैं, उन्हें जैसे धर्म का कुछ पता हो, या धर्म से कोइ लेना देना हो.....अरे भई, वो लोग तो सिर्फ अपनी मन्नते मनवाने के लिए किसी को भी पकड लेते हैं, उन्हें बस एक सम्बल चाहिए होता है, वो कोइ भी देवी, देवता, पीर, फ़क़ीर हो सकता है, ...

For some people Facebook is just a mean to show their face to the world for people like me it is more a mean to show my books. For some it is just a gossip station, for some a place to find a mate. Many love it, a few hate. With the due course, I prepared some notes about Facebook. All this have become a small book. Now I do invite you to face it. Face my Facebook. (1) First the Statutory Warnings---- i) My FB Co-passengers are requested to fasten the seat belts of their fixed ideas & core values. They are also requested to sew their views. If hurt, they themselves would be responsible. ii) All my posts are from the real life for the real life characters.Though unintentional, but may hurt anyone. Please take care of your feelings, if hurt, you,yourself will be responsible, as they say, passengers themselves are responsible for your belongings. (2) EMERGENCE OF NEW HUMAN, COURTESY SOCIAL MEDIA----- The friends who consider facebook or other social medias just as tools of ti...

We learn in many ways. How did we learn our mother tongue?  Of-course through our mother and father's words, their tongue. How do we learn a foreign language? Now there are two ways, first same as we learn our first language and the second , bookish way, learning, tenses, verbs, nouns and grammar. How did you learn typing? The classic way, the way of typing schools? Which finger on which letter, defined way? Or typing haphazardly, any finger, whichever suited you on any letter and by and by, typing fine, not perfectly still very fine and very fast too. How do a singer learn? Reshma, Sai Zahoor and many other world class singers, either never learnt or learnt very little in a bookish way. So to where I wanna drive you? Simple, learn, learning is good, but don't rely upon bookish style only. Once I had some monetary exchanges with someone. The man was not much literate. I was explaining principal amount, then the days he kept my money with him, then the intere...

(1) I once admired him for taking the risk of expressing himself freely and letting us all to understand his views. I still admire him for all that. Here are some of my views about his thoughts and acts. i) He is selective, he will never choose someone to reply who might give him back a hard hit, rest assure. I have tested him many times. ii) Just ask him why he was pleading people to vote for Kejriwal and why he is now totally against him and his party. An idiot. The real thing is Kejriwal didn't care for him so he became against him. iii) Also ask him, why he is meeting NRI's in America and when someone in India asked him to meet, why he said, "main tere haath nahi aanee"? NRI's have hair of gold, no? iv) Moreover whatever issues he is raising, we have raised and discussed already, deeper than him. And many more than him. Once he was counting the issues he has raised till now. Perhaps he does not know, I & people like me raise iss...

मुआवजा दे तो सकते हैं, कर्जा माफ़ कर तो सकते हैं ...लेकिन यह भी तो समाज पर बोझ ही होगा, सामाजिक असंतुलन पैदा करेगा. यह ज़रूरी तो है लेकिन क्या यह कोई हल है? किसान की ऐसी हालात इस बारिश की वजह से नहीं हुआ है, उसकी वजह यह है कि जनसंख्या के बढ़ने से ज़मीन टुकड़ों में बंटती चली गयी, और बंटते बंटते वो इतनी कम रह गयी कि अब वो किसी एक परिवार के पेट पालने लायक भी नहीं रही, आज अगर एक किसान परिवार के पास पहले जैसा बड़ा टुकड़ा हो ज़मीन का, तो उसकी कमाई से ही वो अपना वर्तमान और भविष्य सब संवार लेगा खेती तो है ही कुदरत पर निर्भर, वो कभी भी खराब हो सकती है सो यदि किसान होगा पूरा-सूरा तो निश्चित ही कुदरत की मार उसकी कमर तोड़ देगी, लेकिन यदि वो मज़बूत होगा तो निश्चित ही इस तरह की बारिशें तो उस पर कभी कहर बन कर न टूट सकेंगी........ सो मेरे ख्याल से मुआवजा फ़ौरी हल तो हो सकता है लेकिन इससे कोई मुद्दा हल नहीं होगा .....आज आप बचा लो किसान, कल वो और बच्चे पैदा करेगा, फिर उनकी दिक्कतें बढ़ती जायेंगी.......आप कब तक मुआवजें देते रहेंगे और मुआवज़े कोई आसमान से तो गिरते नहीं.....वो भी समाज का पैसा है.......समाज का एक...