Saturday, 20 June 2015

DEBUNKED MYTHS OF MARRIAGES

1) They say, marriages are natural and made in the heavens.

I say, marriages are neither natural nor made in the heaven, they are man-made only. People lived without them, many are living without them, and most will live without them.

2) They say, married lives are heavenly.

I say, no, they are not, not at all. If this is the heaven then what the hell will be. Actually people are not given a better option that is why they cannot differentiate between the hell and the heaven. A person living in the desert for the whole life, how can know anything about the beauty of gardens?

3) They say, Wed lock is a sacred lock. 

I say, no lock is sacred. Any relationship which puts us into locks, is dangerous. Locked relationships start rotting and stinking. Hence wed locks are nothing but deadlocks

4) They say, Vasudhev Kutumbkam (the whole earth is a big family) is a wonderful concept.

I say, it is a paradox. Ever wonder, what the barrier is between you and the rest of the world. It is the family. It is the family which separates you from the whole world. You can be of the world and the world can be of yours, easily if you are not in a family.

5) They say, some are love marriages and some are arranged marriages.

I say, all marriages are arranged ones, arranged by the law, by the rules and the regulations of the society. Love and marriages do not co-exist. 

And Love, what is this so-called Love, except mad imaginations of sexually starved people. First they “fool around” each other, then they enjoy “sweet nothings” of each other and thereafter “fall” in love with each other.

6) They say, marriages are necessary for bringing and upbringing our next generations on the earth.

I say, what the point is in robots giving births to the robots, fools giving births to the fools? Fools enough to fight and kill each other in the name of religions, books, languages, countries etc. Ulloo mar jaate hain ,aulaad chhod jaate hain. (Fools die but leave their next generation, which is also foolish). Why we think that children cannot be brought and fostered without marriages in a better way?

7) They say, in the end of the story, Hero and Heroine got married and lived happily ever after.

I say, actually when they got married story had to be ended because there was nothing interesting further in the story after the marriage. Marriage marred the whole excitement, happiness, youthfulness and beauty of their lives.

8 ) They say, marriage is a Laddu, whosoever eats feels sorry and whosoever does not eat also feels sorry.

I say, it is a shame on our wisdom that we are living in a social system that whether we get married or remain unmarried; we are always going to feel sorry. 

9) It is high time to invent a social system in which men and women may live happily. Why to be unhappy?

10 ) Please think-think-think and invent a Laddu which should be tasted, eaten and enjoyed too by everyone.

TUSHAR COSMIC
COPY RIGHT MATTER
YOUR FIENDLY NEIGHBORHOOD

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