CAN WE MAINTAIN RELATIONS WITH DIFFERENCES?
Often I see people who claim and do claim somewhat proudly having a good relationship with someone even having differences.
Hmmmm.........What I see?
I see, we all, are never in absolute agreement or disagreement with anyone.
We must be having some differences with our closest friend and must be having some agreements with our worst enemy.
So what I wanna show?
I wanna show you that it is the quality and quantity of agreement and disagreement which decides whether a relationship will float or sink.
As long as you feel that the differences are unimportant or bearable you go on maintaining, enjoying relations.
So what I conclude?
Whenever someone exclaims that the one is enjoying a relationship even with differences or when someone wanna claim that even though there are huge differences still the relationship is floating, I conclude that the differences are small, bearable, not big, not big enough to make the SHIP OF THE RELATIONS sunk.
That is it.
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CIRCUMSTANCES, MAKERS & BREAKERS OF HUMAN RELATIONS
See, our friendship and animosity is mostly circumstantial.
Circumstances can turn the fastest friends into cut throat enemies. Literally. Suppose 40 good friends are crammed in a room and do not have anything to eat for many days. A time might come when the physically strong ones will kill the weaker ones and start eating their flesh.
Circumstances can turn hardcore enemies into allies. The blood thirsty enemies, facing a bigger mutual threat, will forget their animosity and become allies against that mutual enemy.
People often abuse politicians for their opportunist kinda alliances. Before elections they talk evil of each other and after elections, they become allies to form a Government. But this does not happen in politics alone.
This happens in every arena of LIFE.
Lawyers fight with each other in the Courts and sit with each others in Coffee houses.
An understanding of Circumstances can give us deeper understanding of human relations.
Often I see people who claim and do claim somewhat proudly having a good relationship with someone even having differences.
Hmmmm.........What I see?
I see, we all, are never in absolute agreement or disagreement with anyone.
We must be having some differences with our closest friend and must be having some agreements with our worst enemy.
So what I wanna show?
I wanna show you that it is the quality and quantity of agreement and disagreement which decides whether a relationship will float or sink.
As long as you feel that the differences are unimportant or bearable you go on maintaining, enjoying relations.
So what I conclude?
Whenever someone exclaims that the one is enjoying a relationship even with differences or when someone wanna claim that even though there are huge differences still the relationship is floating, I conclude that the differences are small, bearable, not big, not big enough to make the SHIP OF THE RELATIONS sunk.
That is it.
Copyright.
CIRCUMSTANCES, MAKERS & BREAKERS OF HUMAN RELATIONS
See, our friendship and animosity is mostly circumstantial.
Circumstances can turn the fastest friends into cut throat enemies. Literally. Suppose 40 good friends are crammed in a room and do not have anything to eat for many days. A time might come when the physically strong ones will kill the weaker ones and start eating their flesh.
Circumstances can turn hardcore enemies into allies. The blood thirsty enemies, facing a bigger mutual threat, will forget their animosity and become allies against that mutual enemy.
People often abuse politicians for their opportunist kinda alliances. Before elections they talk evil of each other and after elections, they become allies to form a Government. But this does not happen in politics alone.
This happens in every arena of LIFE.
Lawyers fight with each other in the Courts and sit with each others in Coffee houses.
An understanding of Circumstances can give us deeper understanding of human relations.
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